There are many girls who shy away or just hesitate a bit when their boyfriends talk some naughty stuff with them. First of all stop thinking of it as ‘dirty’. I would advise you to talk dirty with the guy whom you trust. There are many girls who start talking naughty stuff with their guys in early stage of relationship which can backfire big time.
Talk dirty to the guy with whom you are comfortable and the trust level is high.

Respond to his dirty talks by talking dirty to him because the hardest metal yields to the most intense fire. Don’t start running. First take some slow steps. Let the romance build in. Start rubbing his hands and gently massage him all over the body. Place your lips close to his ears and utter those things that will pump up the release of testosterone in his egoistic male body. To give him a further boost, ask him, “How was it Darling? Do you want me to fire your body more?”

Dirty talking is not just intended to have sex, but it can spice up your relationship. It removes the hesitancy as well as the barriers of shyness, stripping your heart naked for an effective up-close communication. Once you are settled in, use some titillating and nerve shackling sexy words that will intensify your love making. If you do not know what words to use – Research well by reading some books or watching some pornographic movies. Also, use the words which you are comfortable with and draw a line. If you go all the way, it might portray you as an altogether different character and jeopardize your relationship.

Keep the heat turned on! But as I said, keep it limited. Don’t just jump from a shy cat to a porn star within a few moments. At the same time, don’t restrain yourself from the ultimate bliss of dirty talking. Go ahead! Unleash your inner sex-goddess.

• Try to accept the end- Even though your whole world has turned upside down, you need to put   your break up behind you and cope with the antagonistic feelings that is there inside you. It is very important to accept that your relationship is over. Think positive! Do not get depressed, rather answer few questions in your mind such as- “Is he worth my pain?” and “Do I deserve this?”.

• Move ahead, Move on – Do not cling onto the past. Aim ahead. Keep yourself surrounded by good friends with whom you could frankly converse regarding your feelings. The more you share your painful feelings with others, the better you will be able to get over a breakup. Believe that everything happens for the good. Use this circumstance as a learning measure for self growth. Believe that a time will again come when you will be on a cloud nine with the new love of your life!

• Time is a great healer- Give yourself the time to heal. Time will help you to cope up with your crumbled emotions. When you are emotionally attached to a guy, it is quite obvious that his loss will make you cry. Allow yourself to cry but do not make it a prolonged distressing situation. Remember, time acts as a powerful tool in healing up wounds of your broken heart.

• Connect with your family – Share the feelings with your family. Nothing can heal your wounds better than the love and care of your family. The blessings of your parents will help you in a large extent to get over a breakup. Connect with your family……and you will build a self-confidence to fight against the bitter feelings!

• Do all the things you love to do- You may find that time lies heavy on your hands. But use that time to have fun. Watch movies, explore different places, read funny books, gorge on to your favorite dishes, lie on your bed and have a scoop of ice-cream, enjoy a long drive or do anything that makes you happy.  Try to be happy!! Think about your family and friends who loves you and do not want you to stay sad.

There are few body languages that exhibits a certain kind of behavior. When you sit with your arms and legs crossed, it may seem that you are defensive. When you are confused, you often scratch your head.
At times when you are tensed, you tend to be too alert. When you are touching your face too often, it may mean that you are making the other person uneasy or putting up a barrier with the other person sitting nearby.

Truly speaking, your way of walking, way of talking, way of eating…..your every way of action is a mirror of what you are. Your every move depicts your personality. When you held your head high, it definitely shows that you are pretty confident. Your smiling face is a sign of your kindness and it also makes you more approachable. When you get angry, it gets reflected on your face….you start turning red and facial expressions turn furious. What we are is mirrored through our body language….

• Turn him to jelly with your looks- This is one of the best ways to sweep your guy off his feet. Every time he looks at you he must turn to mush! Look beautiful and sparkly at all times so that he never gets tired of loving and admiring you. Let him be proud of your looks!!

• Make him yearn for more of you- Try to satisfy him in every way. This is the only way he will find you exceedingly sexy and irresistible. Give your heart and soul to bond with him. Make him feel as if he is on cloud nine. Once he realizes that he can’t live without you, he will be all yours as well as you will experience that you have swept-wing him off his feet.

• Throw caution to the wind and please him- You won’t succeed in your plan to sweep your guy off his feet if you are going to be browbeaten and shy. Melt away your shyness and he is bound to go crazy about you. Do things which he likes the most…….it will drive him crazy!

• Satisfy his ego- When it comes to understanding men, it is difficult. It is particularly difficult to find out what they want. The best way to sweep a man off his feet is to satisfy his ego. Acknowledge him…admire him. Make him realize that he is important to you. Do not hurt his feelings or insult him. Give him respect and you will be extremely successful in winning the heart of your sweetheart.

• Make your every outing unforgettable- Do unusual things in every dating. Every time hug him….cuddle him….and love him like never before. Make him feel special…delight him with small surprises or please him in an extraordinary way.

• He cannot get his eyes off you- If he is emotionally attached to you, then his eyes will always gaze at you. He will have his eyes on you and won’t care even if the most beautiful woman on the earth walks by.

• He takes great heed to make you happy- When a man has an emotional affection with you he will always try to make you happy. He will try every possible ways to bring a smile to your face and do things that will make you happy.

• He desires to spend time with you- Does your guy often yearns to meet you? If yes, then be sure that he is emotionally attached with you.

• He is always there to help you- Most of times especially when you need him, he is ever ready to help you. He always stays with you through thick and thin.

• He often showers you with gifts- Who wouldn’t want surprises….. right? Every girl go crazy about those lovely gifts. Some chocolates or flowers may mean he’s emotionally attached to you. Getting regular compliments is a great sign that he’s deeply into you. Saying ‘I love you’ or a loving touch or holding hands might tell you that he is into you. He shows utmost care towards you such as he makes sure that you have already eaten your breakfast, lunch, or dinner. This is a great sign of deep emotional attachment. A man who frequently asks you how you’re doing and makes sure that you take care of yourself is someone who surely has profound feelings for you.

• Do not talk about your ex-boyfriend- Do not discuss your past with your date. Talking about ex is pretty harsh, hurting and insulting, so do not ever utter it at any cost.
• Do not unleash the negative side of yours- Never utter that you like to get drunk or like to watch porn. This may give him a wrong impression.
• Do not utter abusive words for his family…..Ssshhh- This is a real turn-off. Most of the men hate their woman if she doesn’t respect his family. Never ever utter bad words for his family. Remember if you utter so, it will have an extremely bad effect in your relationship.

• Do not say- ‘ Your best friend is very hot’- Guys can’t help it to be competitive — they are practically born that way. Nothing will be more hurting to him than you telling him that your friend is hot and handsome.

• Do not tell him that he is insensitive- Though men are sometimes insensitive, do not utter it around him.
• Do not reveal your flirtations with other guys- One thing is sure that your guy will not like you if you are thinking about other men or flirting around with them. So, do not unleash the small flirting encounters to your guy.

Though it is good to be open and honest in a relationship, there are few things that should not be revealed just for the sake of your love….

So, bride-to-be gear up and enjoy the party to the fullest!!

Teenagers get mood swings for a variety of reasons, including dating problems, family pressures, school pressures and sometimes depression. However, these mood swings may diminish or vanish over time. If a teenager feels ignored or misunderstood in a dating relationship, those feelings may be evident as mood swings. Have you ever seen yourself getting actually cranky for almost no reason? Or abruptly feeling down without knowing why? But why is it common among teenagers to be on an emotional roller coaster? Handling continual pressure and change is part of the answer. May be you are getting good grades but you wish to excel in sports or other activities. The result is depression. Another important reason for mood swings is a constant change. You enter into a new school, and you don’t find your old friends…..you get depressed!

Being a teenager means struggling with self-image and identity. Ignorance by friends gives a lonely feeling. Teenagers may also experience a sense of distance from parents and family. This results in an extreme shifts in mood. Another significant cause for mood swings is biology. The body begins producing sex hormones when puberty starts. Estrogen hormone seem to cause emotional changes — the ups and downs that sometimes feel out of control. Mood swings in teens….the catch is in properly dealing with them.

The alpha males……This term is given to the macho-man, the wolves who are always “into” some chick and have diminutive to no dilemma getting laid. Alpha guy is the one who can be at a party and barely say a word; but his body language says everything, the one who walks ahead of everyone and the one who would be the headliner of a movie. In simple words, alpha male is a funny, charming and a dominating guy. Alpha males are the one who leads a group and is always ahead from others. Alpha males are the power players, they aren’t the quiet bystander or the unnoticed thinker.

The beta males…..Imagine a church-going, merrily married, “healthy relationship” having friend and that is your beta male. Beta guys are the one whom we call “normal”, we pass by them each and every day as they are the steady-going underlings spinning away in this thing called life. They do not have a bull-rushing and they are not the followers of every-day guys but they tend to do things that are ethical and morally acceptable. The beta male look for a female to love, and when he finds her, he ties a knot with her, spit out few kids and turn old graciously within his chosen career.

The omega males…..Real decent males… but also what we call ‘failures’. By and large they are mostly avoided, and hardly anyone remembers them. They are guaranteed males who do not have sex before marriage. Not to say that Omega guys are outcasts or unwanted but they do not have the respect of an Alpha or a Beta guy in a social group. The Omega male faces lot of trouble while finding woman of his life as women simply do not find them appealing(mentally or physically).

Girls, independent and powerful women do not wait for miracles to happen. Rather, they create magic with whatever they have. You may drive your guy crazy with your sexy voice or your decent behavior or your sexy attires. You may give heartfelt compliments to the person you are flirting with, people love to be blandished. You may also casually touch the person you are flirting with on the hand or arm, but remember do not overdo it. While flirting, always sit up straight with your chin up, do not slouch much as it gives a negative vibe.

Have a smiling face while you flirt with someone….it will make you more approachable. Keep an eye-contact with the person you are flirting with, but do not maintain it for more than 4-5 seconds. Gaze him for 4 seconds and then glance away….you will be all set to awaken that seductress in you which will leave your guy wordless. Before you meet your guy, do not forget to apply a good scent as it can turn him on. An irresistible scent can earn you the title of ‘legendary flirt’. Give him a hard time- Be someone who is just not too easy to deal with. You will see that more and more attractiveness is sparked when a guy has to deal with someone who is just not too easy to deal with and he has to struggle a lot just to keep your attention.